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2, 2004 -- January 23, 2004 -- Commercial Salsa???? Dear Rose: I am relatively new to the Salsa lifestyle, have been taking lessons for about two months and recently decided to start going out to clubs to practice with dancers other than the guys in my class. I had a great time, even though I could tell that some of the more advanced dancers were limited by my efforts to stay in rhythm and to not panic when they surprise me with fancy moves. The only thing that bothered me was when one of the better dancers refused to dance with me saying: "I don't dance to commercial salsa" when I asked him what he meant he replied in a very condescending tone: "Come dance with me when you find out" So Rose, my question to you and your readers is: What exactly is commercial salsa and why would a good dancer not want to dance to it? Unfortunately I do not know what song it was that was playing at that time in the club or who was the artist but I know it is a song that I really like (and my teacher plays it often in class.) Also, I have not been reading the forums very long (there is a heck of a lot of writing in your site) so if this question had already been dealt with, please let me know where so I can educate myself. Thaks in advance Monikka Dear Monikka, that has got to be one of the lamest excuses I've heard from a dancer, and I hope that wasn't any of the "advanced dancers" I know. Hmmm... maybe I should try that line sometime... not! And even if you do know what commercial salsa is and you become a fantastic dancer, I wouldn't even waste my time or energy asking that person to dance again. Nothing makes my blood boil than people who think they are better than everyone else when they get to a certain level -- that's called "Ego" and has no place on the dance floor whether you're social dancing, performing or competing. What is that old saying, "What goes up, can always come down?" Anyways, what is commercial salsa? Well, I guess it would be those cheesy Top 40 or modern salsa songs that anyone who doesn't know alot about salsa music history would like, e.g. DLG, Huey Dunbar, Ricky Martin, versus the classic artists, such as Ray Barretto, El Gran Combo, Willie Colon, etc. But then again, I don't know what song you were listening to -- maybe ask the DJ next time you hear it in the clubs as I'm curious as to whether it was really a commercial song or just an excuse. Rose August
11, 2003 -- August 11, 2003 -- 1.5.1) How long will it take me to become a good dancer? Can I just tell you guys how happy I am to FINALLY find a site on T.O'scene?!? I was just about to give up when you came up on yahoo and so far I am really impressed just by the extent to which you provide information. Because I have a two year old daughter I haven't been able to dance half as much as I was before. I tried it recently and i was horrified to see how terrible I am and I found myself getting very impatient and wondering why I ever liked dancing in the first place( just by nature I'm very hard on myself and because this is something I absolutely love love love to do I was like, exceptionally upset) but i went again this weekend and experienced the same thing to a lesser degree but this section just encouraged me so much and reminded of how fun just learning was. That's part of the fun; just waking up one day and being able to like bust some wicked ass moves and then think" oh my gosh was that just me?" I know I'm gushing but I'm sure you know there's like little to no info on the latin scene in Toronto and I'm very happy to see that you guys finally brought it. Sorry for rambling. -- Candice August 3, 2003 -- Nicole DeSilva's article on Casino Rueda Dear Readers, I don't mean to be malicious. But I think you should acknowledge people who you take information from. Or else it is called plagarism. I think it is bad that you give impression to the public that you have knowledge that you don't obviously have. If you doubt me, check it out. -- Rosmary Dear Rosmary, I am very skeptical of your accusation just because we have had Nicole's article for a few years now and the site you mentioned looks fairly new. It wouldn't surprise me if this person read it and copied it to their site and it wouldn't be the first site to use someone else's writing and pass it off as their own. As I am going away shortly, this is all I have time to say at this time. As the salsa world and website world turns... some things just never change or grow up... no different than when we were in high school and some people had cheat notes... Rose July 31, 2003 -- To Mongolids & Ignoramous People Such As Vladimir. "Mikey i read what you wrote and you are very wrong,i guess Cuba and Spain stold el danzon,danzonete,la contra danza,la habanera from Puerto Rico!!,so why is it that the danza if it was there first and it is very puerto rican why is it that no one knows what it is?i asked Puerto Ricans and they have never heard of" I admire I Cuba they're so original and very creative....hhahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahah.
Would thing is what is said, another what it apparently is, and finally
the truth. Please Vladimr do not try to act like a maestro and attempt
to teach all of us your ignorant "knowledege". If you look
at Cuba it IS NOT an original country as opposed to say Mexico for example.
Mexico gained its independence with Mexicans while Cuba needed the help
of the United States and Spaniards who were against Spain. In Mexico,
Mexicans created their flag, in Cuba a Venezuelan general had to create
it for them. I get the hell boiled out of my whenever I met such ignorants
as Vladimir. If this Had been in the 1916 nobody would know who, what
or where the hell Cuba would be. What does this have to do with anything?
It can connect with the music. In the 1930's Cuban music became commercial
music, PUERTO RICAN MUSIC HAS NEVER BEEN (UP TO THIS DATE) COMMERCIAL
MUISC. SO SINCE THE 1930's Cuban music could be heard from Hong Kong
to the North Pole. Now the DANZA, you've said you've asked Puerto Ricans?
Hmmm you just told me you lied cause your full of crap. ALL Puerto Ricans
(I MEAN I'LL BUY IT THAT NUYORICANS WOULDN'T KNOW) KNOW WHAT DANZA IS
YOU MONGOLOID----DANZA IS THE NATIONAL DANCE OF PUERTO RICO.....IS JUST
FOUND OUT WHAT A PIECE OF.......YOU ARE. Back to the music, the fact
that everything from Rumba to Son were commercialized opened interest
in record companies....why would they want to record music they were
unfamiliar with because it wasn't commerical? Cuban music brough $$$
and that's all they cared about. If salsa is Cuban, why hasn't 1 Cuban
artist even been named that this of salsa and the that of salsa? The
one was Celia Cruz....and she was crowned the "Queen of Salsa"
by Tito Puente. I really don't want to get into insulting Cuban people
because of ignorants like you because I've met many good Cubans and
their music WHICH IS NOT SALSA is great. But im defending Puerto Rico
as True Puerto Rican. I say it's not (REAL CUBAN MUSIC) Salsa because
that's where this whole controversy starts. Ignorants like you want
to call salsa the music that Ernesto Lecuona or Xavier Cugat and that
is not salsa. Take me for example I love Xavier Cugat's music but NONE
of his songs sound like salsa-NONE OF THEM. Undoubtley Salsa Has Cuban
Roots but it is not a Cuban Creation. I we follow that idiotic theory
that only mongoloids such as Vladimir. Then Tango is Not Argentinan
it's European, Mariachi is not Mexican because it has Cuban roots also
since it evolved from the Son Jarocho which comes from the Cuban son.
Then Again is the Son Cuban? If You Ever Travel to Santiago de Los Caballeros,
Dominican Republic (AND I HOPE YOU DO SO YOU DON'T THINK I'M MAKING
IT UP) 99.9% of the People there claim that They created the Son and
then DOminican immmigrants took it to Cuba. Salsa was indeed created
MOSTLY by Puerto Ricans altough some other Latin Americans also contributed
and it was in New York. I'll Admit Cuba was a musical rhythm producing
machine but that all ended in 1959. Why can't Cubans just admit that
Salsa is Puerto Rican. WHY HASN'T ANY SONG BY ANY CUBAN ARTIST EVER
SOUNDED LIKE NORO MORALES' "PONCE" THAT IS THE CLOSEST YOU'LL
EVER GET TO CONTEMPORARY SALSA FROM A SONG THAT WAS RECORDED IN THE
40's. Like I Said I've Met Many Good Cuban People So I Don't Want To
Get Into This Whole Feud Thingy. Some of those People Have Been Salsa
Artist Like Pedro Jesus who was born in Cuba but lives in New York.
Pedro Jesus attened the Puerto Rican parade festivities. He improvised
on one of his songs in which he said something like this "En Cuba
nacio el guaguanco, nacio el cha cha cha, la guajira......Y En Puerto
Rico donde nacio, nacio la salsa caliente". The Super Cuban All
Stars Which Featured Artist Like Miles Pena recorded a song "Salsa
y Son" Which Said "Baila Puerto Rico El Son, Que Cuba Baila
Tu Salsa, Mi Son y Tu Salsa Son Dos Instrumentos del Alma". Most
of these artist I mentioned are outside of Miami, so this whole, Salsa
is Cuban thing comes from Ultra-Right Wing Miami Cubans A.K.A. "The
Miami Cuban Mafia" This Whole Salsa Thing Has a Political Hidden
Agenda Behind it. Again answer me this question what do Babalu, Elube
Chango, Miami Beach Rhumba, Calientito, El Mondonguero, Mambo at the
Waldrof, La Culebra, Bonito y Sabroso, 72 Hachero's Pa' Un Palo (From
Arsenio), etc. etc. etc. Have to do with Salsa-----those are Cuban and
just Cuban. AND THOSE SONGS HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH PUERTO RICAN SALSA.
I don't want to offened Cubans but people like you make me speak out
the TRUTH. If you say that Cuba is so original? Why are they always
saying Momentico, Poquitico, Chiquitico......THEY STOLED THAT FROM THE
COSTA RICANS WHICH ARE THE REAL TICOS. This "diminutivos"
of the Verbs originated in Costa Rica that's why they call Costa Ricans
Ticos. Salsa is nothing more than a blend a rhythms...it DOES have a
lot of Cuban to it but that doesn't it making Cuban. What's the difference
between Cumbia a songs from La Sonora Matancera. Cumbia has strong Cuban
influences as well, so does this mean we should call it Cuban instead
of Colombian? Mexico's Band Music Sounds the Same as German Music....Does
This Mean We're gonna call it German Now? Salsa was a Puerto Rican creation...NOT
a Cuban one, but ignorants like you (WHO WOULD CALL MIGUELITO VALDES'
"RUMBA RUMBERO" A SALSA SONG) and politics attempt to make
seem as though its Cuban. July 21, 2003 -- Salsa Lessons I am going to my first salsa lesson today, it's at a local bar. I am not sure what to wear. Can you or your readers help me out in this issue. All the sites I have seen say "be comfortable" -- Moneta July 9, 2003 -- salsa on 1 /salsa on 2 I'm not clear on the above terminology. Would you mind explaining to me? Thanks, Debbie Dear Debbie, we have made a separate page for this topic... click hereJuly
4, 2003 -- Dancing July 4, 2003 -- Discriminatory Entry Practices This letter I sent , needs to absolutely be posted in it's entirety, it's the truth and I will not back down from this thugs that run the door. I am of the caliber and presentation to make it into any venue in town...on merits of appropriate Sartorial dictum and have never been discriminated before. I told everyone I could and 8 ppeople told me The Mayan Club was really a hot club yrs ago, but that now the venue and genre has not only slipped...it slumped! resspectfully yours, Giovanni Fiol-Beverly Hills, Ca. June
18, 2003 June 18, 2003 -- dance partner?? I am looking for a site that would provide a list of person looking
for a dance partner, if i am not mistaken you had that before, please
tell me where i should look under to find that again, thanks and keep
up your great work!!! -- Nadia June 17, 2003 -- general comment Interestingly, I stumbled across this discussion while looking for web sites on accent reduction. I am an English language instructor and found it intriguing to find such a heated debate on 'quality' of Spanish spoken in various countries. In the opinion of linguists, no language is better than any other language and the same is said for dialects. They are each considered to be their own entity, albeit derived from common sources -- Joan June 15, 2003 -- Hello, I am new to salsa and find it difficult to remember the order of moves such as the double cone. Is there somwhere online you would recommend where I can download video clips of routines to help me learn quicker. Thanks, John, UK Dear Sunny, there's very few websites that have videoclips of routines, but you could check SalsaMafia.com which has quite a few clips of moves, but doesn't break it down. I suggest you might want to buy an instructional videotape. From your email, I believe you live in the UK and it should be pretty easy for you to purchase a video from there, such as Super Mario or Leon Rose June 3, 2003 -- shines check out this link.... http://www.salsa-uk.com/articles/article196.htm article
title....despite the opening, informative, tongue in cheek with a bite... It all starts in the Bible, and goes pretty much downhill from there on. ‘And
Onan knew that the shine should not be his; and it came to pass, when
he danced with his brother’s wife, that he spilled it on the ground,
lest that he should give the shine unto his brother. And the thing which
he did displeased the Lord: wherefore He slew him also.’ (Genesis
38:9) April 28, 2003 -- where to find all the info i can on the salsa where on the web can i find the history of the salsa -- Ariel April 23, 2003 -- Rose, would it be possible to interview the 2nd, 3rd, 4th place finishers at the Berlin amateur finals? I am interested in knowing where they study. regards ed Dear Ed, I don't have contact information for all the amateurs, and maybe if they're surfing through out site or via one of our readers... they could write in and of course I'll post it. As this site is maintained in our spare time and is not our real job, it would be impossible to find the time to do this plus the many other sections of this site; unless anyone knows a volunteer writer/ researcher who'd be interested in handling this request (hint hint) -- Rose April 20, 2003 -- Salsa dancing ! Cuban or Puerto Rican? I would like to know what is the difference between the way the cuban's
dance it to the way the puerto rican's dance it. -- Cristina April 15, 2003 -- Mambo on 2 from Argentina Hello Rose!.. How're you?? First.. Sorry for my badly english =) I'm a mambo on 2 dancer on Argentina... And... I want more frankie martinez videos... I wanna know if you have more frankie videos... Regards, Alejandro Kapit, Buenos Aires, Argentina. Hola Alejandro... hmmm.... I'd have to check my library of videos and/or you'll just have to wait until the next Salsa Congress... if you want to see him live, the closest congress to your country would be Puerto Rico in July if he is still plannign to perform there... RoseApril 15, 2003 -- To Chinchub All debates of dancing styles aside, isn't salsa just wicked for hooking up with the opposite sex. Wgat do you guys think? Rocco April 15, 2003 -- Cuban Debate, Etc. Chinchub Cuban Salsa is the best in the world. It has the most advanced turn patterns, spins, and they move their body more than anyone in the universe. New York Salsa, L.A. Salsa, Colombian Salsa sucks. They are not really Salsa--they are just off-shoots from the great Cuban dance. Dance to
Live sucks Hurray! Fidel Castro won! Cuban dancing is great...too bad not a lot of people teach it. Those who do spend too much time at TOSalsa bitzin and criticizing...and you wonder why Cuban Salsa is a rarity. Oooohhh....I can't wait for the response now -- Threadkiller... April 10, 2003 -- can-am open amateur latin championships, Toronto,2000 Hi, I hope you can help me. April 3, 2003 -- All Right--that's it! I've had enough...where does Salsa come from once and for all? I have read all the debates and all the threads from the experts and have heard every form of argument. One thing that appears to be sure of is that Salsa has Afro-Cuban roots regardless whether it developed in Puerto Rico or New York or even before it reached the shores of other Latin countries. Basically, what I am looking for is this: Historically, what is the most accurate evolution of Salsa, which means documented evidence (video, writings, etc.)? Did Cuba develop Salsa as we know it in international congresses nowadays. So far this is what I gather from most the argument and the stuff I've read in other websites: 1. Salsa has Cuban roots (Son or something else, perhaps). It does not discount the fact that Cuba could have developed its own Salsa since it obviously had its earliest roots there. 2. Before it became "officially Salsa," it reached the shores of New York or Puerto Rico, and it evolved from there, and so forth in Colombia, etc, etc. Rose Knows, I think we should have a poll on this and see exactly what readers think. Let the experts present their case. While Salsa roots have always been hotly debated, let's see where all the readers stand. Anonymous. Thank you. March 26, 2003 -- Short Question Hi! On your homepage is a fiery discussion on different ways of dancing sals (Colombian, ballroom etc) but do you know any homepage or if you could tell me what the diferenses are beetween the diferent ones. Thank you so much! :) Kale March 12, 2003 -- I had some questions about the salsa and where it originated and more. 1. What
country and culture is this dance forum from? March 6, 2003 -- Hello there, I enjoy dancing but find that many of my frinends do not. Are there people out there like me who need to find a dance partner? Do you have any suggestions? Natasha Gascho Dear Natasha, you can try joining our partner search, but another great way to make new dance friends is by joining a salsa class or workshop and/or possibly in the nightclub dance classes. You can also check out my dance article or beginner article section for more ideas... March 5, 2003 -- Re. Dancing with really tall guys-Feb 25/03 I couldn't resist answering this one. I won't disclose my height on here, but I can say that I too have had the opportunity to dance with someone who is a foot taller than me and I just want to say that you probably aren't the only one who's worried. That night, I remember being worried that the guy I was dancing with had to bend down a little too low (making him uncomfortable) when he was turning into me while doing the man-turn (I believe that was the move-I'm a beginner so I don't know. But I can say that I as a woman don't feel stupid dancing with guys who are really tall. As long as they can lead, I have no problem. -- Anon February 25, 2003 -- dancing with really tall guys Do you
think that the majority of women would perfer to dance with someone
their own size, being a really tall man I wondered what a female view
would be on dancing with a guy who is taller than 6'6". Does is
make most women feel stupid to dance with really tall guys. February 24, 2003 -- Simple Question Dear Rose, I just have a simple question to the people out there. If I write something longer, I don't think people will take the time to read it? If New
York style salsa is something completely new, why do they call "Mambo"
? There might be some dispute where salsa comes from. But there is no
doubt Mambo comes from Cuba. 100% cubano, my friends. February 13, 2003 -- Which Salsa Style is the most choreographically complex? Cuban? I have travelled extensively (although a limited amount of time in Cuba, I must admit), and I have to say from observation that New York Style seems to be the most complex choreographically, for a couple of reasons: 1) Every Cuban body movement pattern I have seen almost have a similar
variation in New York Style (which also encompases a lot of Puerto Rican
patterns and body movements). I'm not trying to put any style down, I'm just trying to choose a style I'd like to pursue further that I'd get the most out of choreographically. What are your thoughts? Maria February 3, 2003 -- Hello My name is carlo and I started dancing Salsa & Merengue in Montreal
on January 1997. I took private classes to better myself as a dancer
and I took group class to meet new people. The main reason I started
taking Latindancing was to get out and get rid of my shyness. Well it
worked. I ended up learning Swing, ChachaCha, Ruba, Rueda, Argentine
Tango and Bachata. I am no expert in those dances but if I hear a song
and I can dance it, I'm on the dance floor. I focused my dancing in
Salsa, Merengue and Rueda Casino. In August 2002, because of work, i
got posted in Prince Edward Island. I don't know if you've been there
but there aint too much ethnicity (I am being nice, there's none. The
only gangs around here are the Protestants and the Catholics.lol.) January 23, 2003 -- 50 reasons why salsa is just like S-E-X Dear ToSalsa.com, I wrote this one because I know that all of us (salseros/salseras) have this in common or can relate to it in some way. Please post it so our other salsa brothers and and sisters can have a good laugh. Thank you,
Alex Labrador January 6, 2003 -- 1.6.3) Know the music So right! I'm convinced I'm deaf-I cant hear the beat and cant follow. Help! Is there some formula to the beat? HY Dear HY, my goodness this could be a really tough answer to come up with in an instant... so let me think about this some more, and maybe some Readers can come up with some simple suggestions for you to try... some simple questions to start off with is:1. Did you ever take dance lessons and ask your Instructor for help with this problem? 2. Do you have any friends who dance that can help you hear the beat? January 1, 2003 -- Salsera in Texas / Release my Feet! Hello Rose! I hope all is well with you. I love your site! I just wanted to ask a question of you. I am a recently converted salsaholic that has been dancing since summer. I've progressed a lot as I have met a lot of nice dancers in my city who have taken the time to dance with me and teach me a few things.....and also due to the fact that I have been going out ALL the time! I have now reached a point where I can follow just about anything a guy throws out there.....but God forbid that he let me go! Every time he does I feel a sudden rush of adrenaline and then a bit terrified I think to myself "Oh crap!, what ever shall I do?" They let me go mostly during percussion solos, or those vocal improvs at the end of a song which are often so awesome, I just want to bust a move all over the place! But what results instead is very ethusiastic....... (drum roll please...........) basic step. bummer. Have you ever experienced this? What does it take to start learning footwork... to feel natural on the dance floor when your lead lets you go? Most ladies are delighted to get these few moments to "shine" .....but since I don't know many moves and the ones I do know don't flow from me naturally when I'm on the dance floor.....it's a little unnerving. I have asked other dancers (guys and girls alike) what to do, and they tell me to do whatever I feel... (to the rhythm and timing of the music) . When I ask how they learned... they said from watching others and picking up some of their moves. I, for one don't, seem to be able to pick up moves just from observation alone. How did you deal with this (if you've ever experienced it) and do you have any suggestions for learning footwork or getting comfortable with being released for shines? (classes, workshops, video?) Please help me RELEASE MY FEET. >=) Sincerely, Una salsera del corazon "I've
seen the daylight breaking high above the bough; December 18, 2002 -- About Casino I've heard that Casino started in the 1950's and is actually much older. I've seen footage of 1940's and 1930's bands like arzenio rodriguez and sexteto nacional ignacio piqeiro and the dancers dance casino style. my grandfather was a great casino dancer and he would be around 90 years old now if he was alive. Casino has been around as long as son has been around. some of its steps come from danzon and others from rumba. the story goes that the name originated after one of the most famous clubs of the time, casino deportivo. -- Orisha December 17, 2002 -- finding a partner what are the other ways to find a partner apart from the one on the web site 'cause the profiles on the website are just few and seem to be old. I took few classes on salsa and i dance on level 2. looking forward
to meet a potential dance partner who could part some time at least
once a week for social dancing. thanx. Randy December 16, 2002 -- Reply to Andy from Italy Dec 11, 2002 Toronto dancers are very much influenced by NY style on 2 (where men break back on 2). However many on2 lady dancers can switch to what we would call "Puerto Rican Style" on2 where men break forward on 2. Leaders (men) with a strong sense of timing are also quite comfortable to switch to this form. We also have a growing movement from cuban-style/rueda salsa (also on 2). We are not too picky - we just want to be able to dance any style anywhere in the world! While it is easier to switch from breaking forward on 1 to the Puerto rican style on 2, having the emphasis on 6 in the NY Style salsa does give the dance a totally different feel. Given that music accents (& dips) are usually on 1 or 5, I think it all balances out in the end.... Remember true musicality comes not from which beat your break on but rather how you make the best use of the music.... there a different types of claves and different instruments you can dance to. -- On2 Salsera December 11, 2002 -- Hi guys....message to Canadian Latina....I'm Andy from Italy....you wanna know the difference between different ways to dance on "2" ?..very easy...I think in the States ( and probably also in canada..I've been to Toronto this summer ) dancing on two is related to Eddie Torres step, typical N.Y.style...which is "two" for the man backward...and six forward...but following the clave at 123- 567 ...then there is the most known , I mean in the rest of the world dancing on " two " is 234 - 678..which is probably easier to understand, you follow the timing ( clave ) at 2 and the man really moves his left foot forward on the second time of the clave... which I personally think is much easier and better , and you get into the rhythm and drums ( las percusiones..timbales y congas ) in a better and deeper way......This is the typical " salsa on "two" ........reply whenever you want bye canadian Latina....who knows..maybe one day we'll dance 2gether......when I'm back to toronto..ciao ! December 10, 2002 -- cuban salsa dancing clips To counter balance the LA, New York and Ballroom styles videos clips. I am sending links for people to see Cuban Salsa dancing. These are websites to sell videos, but you can video clips for free. These NEW VIDEOS -- chincub www.boogalu.com/generic94.html www.salsaville.com/salsa_a_la_cubana_new.htm November 23, 2002 -- Reaction to Why are you not dancing article I loved it!! I wish every guy & girl out there would read this.
I can't tell you have many times I've danced with men where I have to
guess at their leading, were dancing off beat, experimented their complicated
turn patterns on me at high speed, and who had killer breath &/or
bad b.o., I just can't see myself dancing with these guys again. I've
also experienced guys who were in the same dance classes w/ me who didn't
mind dancing w/me in class but totally ignore me on the dance floor.
November 18, 2002 -- salsa dancing info. Hi. I am writing because I am doing my senior project on salsa dancing,
and I need more information. Actually my project is on learning how-to
salsa dance. I am really excited! I live in a small town, and we have
no dance studios or classes availible. Any information on the culture,
style, history, or steps, would be greatly appreciated. PLEASE WRITE
BACK! October 31, 2002 -- Salsa Debates Come on guy's, give it up already!! Instead of debating, why don't more of you dance rather than standing against the wall with a beer bottle in your hand. Us girls wish to dance, or haven't you noticed. We don't bite and won't say no to a guy who just wants to dance. But forget the macho stuff, pls. And don't think a woman wants to jump into bed with you because she accepts your invitation to dance. Latin men can be very charming but too many are obnoxious with their overly aggressive behavior. Most women just want a nice night out without having to fight off jerks!! So pls, ask us to dance and show that you're a gentleman. You never know what it may lead to -- Gina Dear Gina, in a less colourful manner, you may have a point about getting up and dancing; but at the same time, the days/nights people are probably spending time writing and debating is probalby on one of those off-nights when you just don't feel like dancing or socializing. Rose August 26, 2002 -- Being asked to dance Hi! First
of all, great site, and great exchanges on the site! Second, something
rather bizarre happened to me last weekend. I live in Berlin, Germany,
and was at a club called Havanna. There wasn't too much action, so I
was naturally thrilled to be asked to dance at all (yup, I'm female).
At one point, I was standing and conversing with an acquaintance when
she was asked to dance. I watched her dancing with this guy, who I quickly
realized was pretty drunk. She danced one number with him, and he then
turned to me and said, "Come on, let's dance." I smiled, said,
"No, thank you" and thought that would be the end of it; indeed,
not. This person then grabbed my arm and said "Oh, what, you're
the Salsa Queen? You're too good to dance with me?!?" I was so
shocked...I could only say "Excuse me, I just said I don't want
to dance, please except that" and extricate my arm from his grip
(trying not to make it look as if I were struggling with the guy), after
which point he grabs his drink and stomps away. Now, I am one of those
women who, generally and as a rule of politeness, dances with anyone
who asks me; my only exceptions are guys who are quite obviously out
of control of themselves, i.e. drunk. What I'd like to know is, did
I handle this situation appropriately? Should I have given this guy
one dance (completely against my inclination), and then bowed out? And
has something similar happened to any other women (or men) out there?
I hardly ever turn down dances, so it was a pretty big stunner to find
out that there are people out there who get really offended (and offensive)
when they're turned down. I'd be grateful for any feedback! Sandy July 20, 2002 -- Dancing on 1 versus Dancing on 2 Hola Rose, I just have a quick question I live in Trinidad next to Venezuela and the majority of people here dance salsa one to three tap (i.e. on every fourth step there is a little tap.) What exactly is dancing on the two? Is it like how salsa in danced in Miami where there is no tap really and a lot of cross body leads? Ricky Jones Dear Ricky, that is a quick question which can have a rather lengthy explanation. I'll give you a quick and dirty explanation, with links to various articles that will help explain it in detail as I'm really tight on time. Think of a diving board slot where you dance forward and backward. LA-style uses this diving board slot and the girl breaks back (steps) on the 1st beat, there are no taps on the hold beat, so you're stepping on the 1-2-3, 5-6-7 and holding on 4 and 8. Dancing on 2, is similar, but breaks back on the 2 beat, so you are still stepping on the 1-2-3, 5-6-7 beats and holding on 4 and 8, but the back break is on 2, not on 1 with no taps in the basic. There is more than one way to dance on 2, but the one I learned was the girl breaks forward on the one beat (with her right foot), and then hits the two with her left foot. To put it another way (for dancers who only dance on 1), when you watch dancers on 1 versus dancing on 2, the dancers on 2 look like they're off by one beat. Here are some links to some articles which will give you the more "technical" explanations. The Different Styles of Salsa by Nicole da Silva, Toronto, click here. Dancing on 2 by SalsaNewYork.com, click here. July 7, 2002 What kind of dancer are you? Ballroom or Salsa! A little over a year and a half ago, I entered the Salsa world from ground zero. I have come across different kinds of dancers. Some stand by the sidelines, thinking about if they should take lessons, a year and a half later, they are still thinking. Then there are some dancers, they took some lessons, perhaps from a professional or from friends, they began to dance occasionally, on weekends, perhaps once in while during the week. They are happy doing simple steps, 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8 or 5, 6, 7, 8, 1, 2, 3, 4. There are also dancers, you see them in workshops, classes, two three times a week, they seem to be everywhere. First they look mechanical, stiff, ballroom salsa dancers, weekend girls or boys laugh at them as it makes them feel superior. These dancers persist, they begin to develop body rhythm, and then musicality. As music pulsates into a fierce torrent, as does their movement, when the music ebbs and wain into a dreamlike trance, the steps change, 1, 3, 5 and 7. The texture of the dance changes.. Girls and boys, those that understand, begin to ask them for a dance. What kind of a dancer are you? Do you really understand or are you a close minded dancer happy in your ignorant bliss! The ballroom salsa dancer dances on into a world that you wouldn't understand as your vision is blurred by negativity and a lack of fire and passion for excellence. Be happy with your 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8... You wouldn't understand it! Richard Hello Readers, I received this email and sent it to Mr. S. Shaw, who happens to be one of the webmasters of SalsaNewYork.com, as it was obvious this "anonymous" writer, Carmen See See, was directing her attack at him and his article. He graciously responded back after reading her email and you could say that this is an on-going issue with many dancers with dancers who don't necessarily ask them for a dance. Remember, it is a two-way street and some days there are dancers that you just don't feel like dancing with and/or don't have an opportunity to dance with. I think we've all been down that path at some point, even me! Rose Knows June 21, 2002 -- Dancing to have fun I have been dancing now for a while and have read your
article on dancing. I do like social dancing but find it lots of work
after all this time. No matter how well you dance, it is never enough
especially if your are older. WHO DANCES WITH WHOM? - HUMAN NATURE AT WORK Most people most of the time choose their partners for
2 reasons: 1) For those who feel excluded, I would simply say that
if you work your way up in terms of your dancing skills and style, and
you hold similar views and make friends, most of these so-called "cliques"
can eventually become the groups you congregate in, if that's what you
wish. You can also find out what studio they go to or come from, and
then go take classes there. This way, you become friends with them in
classes and learn their particular style, and hang out with them at
the socials or clubs. My point here is that they are not really "cliques"
in the sense of being exclusionary, but rather people congregating together
around shared skills and interests which, incidentally, is called "The
Right To Free Association" in our U.S. Constitution. -- Steve Shaw June 20, 2002 Rose, Check this out if you haven't: http://www.salsacrazy.com/salsaroots/nysalsero.htm I think it's a very important article. I see more and more new dancers in Toronto trying to acheive the "NY pinnacle", while ignoring all other forms of salsa, which I feel is quite foolish considering the diversity inherent in TO. I think comments made against Timba stem from the NY attitude against anything non-NY. Thanks again! Josue May 15, 2002 1. Nice web site... 2. So many girls think Cumbia is Salsa. Bless their innocent hearts, but I wish I had a dollar for every girl that told me she danced Salsa, then I was locked into 4 minutes of swing dancing. I would be investing alot of money.... 3. also... in regards to LA/NYC styles and Chicago. I have had the pleasure of studying with top dancers from all of the cities mentioned. My answer to comments by many who critisize LA or west coast style, etc. is... let's see you dance like that... I try to dance different styles. Forcing oneself to do so opens up your dance acumen, and allows you change with the music. You want emotion, you want heart, you want street dancing, take the blinders off and dance your ass off in whatever style you choose, but don't critisize unless you something to back it all up. Too many critics and not enough good people to promote a wonderful avocation and eclectic music like Salsa is bad period. Unless someone is teaching something that is way off the mark, and none of his or her students know how to dance with anyone else, well...... ? It is a great social activity, and the Europeans, with all their passion for life, have really embraced the sport. I think that all Americans, and if you pay taxes here you qualify, should take a look the Latin explosion in Europe. When I have women from Spain and Italy tell me how much they love dancing with me, well, I feel pretty damn good. I am not a professional dancer, but I never stop trying to dance like one. :) May 13, 2002 Hi! ToSalsa.com I'm an new Zealand student interested in salsa dancing, I also do alot of dancing myself. I was wondering if you could possible send me some information on the history and origins of the salsa dancing. And also some websites you would find helpful (if possible). think you very much -- Stacey, New Zealand :) April 4, 2002 -- Toronto Star Article re "Two Left Feet" Dear Readers, it's nice to see that there's other passionate dancers who are male writing in about this article. The one thing that I didn't state clearly is that he had four tries (4 sets of dance classes) -- not four lessons, so I changed it on the page... it's too bad they took it down so quickly... another paragraph which got me upset (because it sounded a little demeaning for Asians. He had also been working in Beijing, China and took dance classes with a Colombian where he was the only male): "My classmates brought along a motley crew of beer-bellied Western men who were not their boyfriends and not their brothers. The beer bellies didn't dance but got lots of affection from my classmates. For a moment, I pondered the mystery of this intimacy - then my reflection in the mirror slapped me back to reality." Rose Knows April 4, 2002 -- two left feet lawyer This is in response to the toronto sun article about salsa dancing. I haven't read the article but from the little that I got from TOsalsa is that this lawyer is mad because he is a bad dancer! So therefore he complains that he can't dance because of the instructors? Excuse me! buddy I have been dancing for a year now so I am fairly new and I know for a fact that in order to be good at salsa it takes commitment and time and not giving up after four tries. This guy is complaining because he cannot dance well unless you are superman you will not pick up salsa within just a few classes. He questions his intellectual approach to salsa? what is he talkin about? dancing salsa is feeling the music in your mind body and soul first! then you will be able to dance properly or at least decently. And the other thing is he is a jelous man he sees how good the advanced students are and he wishes he could be like them he is frustrated that he is not like them. Well he should remember that even the best salsa dancers make mistakes and need practicing he should also remember to become good at salsa requires years of commitment and pratice and not just going to a few classes thinking that you will come out the salsa king of toronto! I call this the salsa king illness I have seen this many many times people complain to the instructor that they are not learning anything becuase they want to become toronto salsaking after one class lol I know the rest of you have seen this before. -- Zerg April 3, 2002 -- Two Left Feet article in the star Hi Rose,
I read your comments about The Star's editorial on salsa for the Sunday
edition. I was really pissed off at their lack of attention to detail
and I wanted to share with you the letter that I wrote to them. Albert
Koehl, whoever he is and your publishing of this article affects the
salsa community much more profoundly than you realize. If you want to
do an article on salsa in the city I suggest your people do the legwork
take some classes themselves and really invest some time and money on
understanding the craft themselves, before having a sub-standard writer
make comments about subject matter he has obviously not enough background
in. By publishing
that piece you perpetuate the idea that salsa is just some ghetto street
dance, that really doesn't require a lot of effort to learn. After *4*
lessons you let Koehl make 'very' public comments about a craft he has
no idea about. I have personally been dancing for more than a year and
I would never venture my pen on a piece of paper to make a comment about
the salsa scene. There's just too much to know. The fact that a sub-standard
novice publishes that kind of writing illustrates how the STAR views
the latin-dance scene. You guys obviously didn't send your best people
for this job...?! Please reply with an email where I can apply for a position as a journalist at the Star -- Erik March 14, 2002 -- Hi Rose. I am that guy that you said tried to impress you with all those fancy moves, "the beginner", the guy who kissed you on your belly button. My sincere and humble apologies for all of that #@#$!..., that I have caused you. I did not know that would upset you. Perhaps I should take that dance etiquette course. In casino rueda there is a move called "besso" , I do not know the correct spelling, but it means to kiss. I thought that this was a legitimate salsa move. I promise never to do this move without my partners permission in the future, I certainly do not want to upset any ladies out there. I honestly still consider myself as a regular guy trying to learn how to dance salsa properly. My teacher says to try to dance with better dancers to become a better dancer myself. That was the reason why I asked you to dance, because I truly consider you as an amazing lady dancer. I was honored that a superb dancer like you would even let me dance with you. This really made me happy, thank you for dancing with me. I do know the basics in salsa. The reason why I said that I am still learning in salsa because it is the simple truth! I have only been dancing a little over 2 years, and based on my experience out there in the clubs, I know that I will never stop learning, but most importantly, I need to learn a lot more. For example "dance etiquette" ;-). During the salsa opening of the club called "hotel bar", I was fortunate to be able to dance with this really superb lady dancer, her name starts with a "w" , (maybe- I am not that sure, my memory is no good). I know that I did not dance well with her because I was going off rhythm. She gave me a couple of pointers in how to dance better. If she reads this please tell her that I appreciate her advice, thank you. As you see I do really, truly need to learn more. As for my name, I thought that I mentioned it to you, but than again I may have been mistaken. Next time I see you I promise to tell you. I did say hello to you last Sunday at Left Bank when I passed by. I hope you accept my humble apologies. All I want is to become a better dancer. And of course to have lots of fun dancing. And hopefully my partner can enjoy the dancing also. That is my goal. Thank You -- George Dear George, it's nice to see you had the courage to write in; and I will accept your humble "apologies" since what you did actually gave me an opportunity to voice some issues regarding dance etiquette -- an ever-evolving, but "been there, done that" topic. As new dancers come onto the scene, they either get excited about dancing and forget everything about manners and how to treat people in general because they're too busy worrying about their moves that they have tunnel vision OR think it's a free-for-all on the dance floor or shall I say a "candy store"? Guys, remember the manners you learned about how to "date" or how to treat people, well the same thing applies on the dance floor. Unless the person you dance with is one of your regular partners or knows you -- don't try any fancy tricks or moves which may offend someone who doesn't know you, such as the "touch the knee" move, neck drops or body waves, unless they give you persmission. Regarding the move "Besso", yes I know it too, because I have danced casino, but I can't imagine anyone teaching it to kiss someone on the "belly button", unless they missed a kiss on their cheek on their face (isn't that the move they teach?). It's a legitimate dance move, but in a casino rueda and probably with dancers you practice or dance rueda with on a regular basis -- NOT with someone you've met for the first time and who considers you a stranger. Yes, we're out there to dance, but let's put the "shoe on the other foot" and let's say I did the "besso" move on the guy -- what would you be thinking? Wow, this girl is hot for me? attracted to me or how about... I think I'm going to score tonight! Puhleese... give girls a little more credit than that, and as for thinking you mentioned your name? I specifically asked you 2 if not 3 times for your name and you coyly dodged giving me a specific answer. Anyways, to continue, guys and even gals, do not think for one minute that people in clubs do not talk -- in this case, I have the privilege of having a web page about dancing and we can publicly voice our opinions, but when you're in the clubs and this type of scenario happens, don't think that the person you're dancing with would not talk to their friends about what happened and warn them about who to watch out for. Just because she doesn't complain while dancing, doesn't mean she may not be offended by the move, she will just ensure she doesn't dance with you again or will definitely avoid you and warn all her friends -- Rose Knows February 28, 2002 -- dancing on 2 HI! I've been hearing about dancing on 2 and had the opportunity to try it with some dancers I know... however, it seems as if there are different versions (for lack of a better description). Can anyone clarify this for me? Thanks, canadian latina Hi Canadian Latina, what a loaded question... check out this link on SalsaNewYork.com for dancing on the 2, or do a www.google.com search for links explaining how to dance on 2. Here's the salsaweb version... November 21, 2001 -- I have read something on your web site concerning people in Europe and/or a Caribbean island where the people dance with the right foot forward instead of the left like we do in TO. When I went Cuba, every cuban danced opposite to us here. Surprisingly, I find all the Cubans I have met and even many Dominican Republicans (who do not live here) dance with the right foot forward as well. When my Dominican friends came here, they all thought that we dance wrong. So my friends were shocked to see that we dance left foot forward when "that is not the real salsa to them". Now, weren't the Cubans the ones who started salsa, so how did we get with the left foot forward? I would really like an answer to this. Can you please ask all of your international professionals the question? I would also really like to hear other people's responses to this. Can you please address everyone? Ask the Cubans to respond. Thanks, Brian January 5, 2001 - cubans dancing forward on the right foot i recently return from a holiday to cayo coco in cuba and stayed in a lovely resort. i watched with great curiosity to their salsa dance lessons since i have read your email brian. indeed, when they teach the basic forward and back pattern they do indeed start with the right foot forward. as the lesson continued i noticed that when they taught a more intricate foot work pattern they danced with their left foot forward. that night i watched the cuban dancers dance with the crowd and then asked a few of my girlfriends which foot they were stepping forward with. they were all dancing with their left foot forward. the next day i had a chance to speak to the head instructor and ask him why do you teach right foot forward and dance left forward when dancing with a girl. he explained that when they dance solo to salsa or anything else, as in like how we might dance to maybe R&B, they all like to start dancing with their right foot. so in teaching patterns to a group, it seems to be habit to always start with the right foot forward. after the cuban instrutor talked it over with one of his co workers he said that it would be easier to teach the tourist to dance left foot foward in their classes so as it would be easier for the tourist to transit from group lessons to patnered dancing at the end of the shows -- age |